Pastor Laurie Idahosa has told men that they may be one of the reasons why their wives no longer look as good as they did before marriage.

She shared a photo showing a woman looking well cared for before marriage and slightly stressed as a wife. It also included a response given by a man explaining why this may be so.

The response reads: “Yeah because first is how her parents treat her and second one how you treat her.”

Laurie reacted, writing: “This response is everything! Too often, we blame the woman for the decline in her self image, poise, confidence, etc… Everything stems from somewhere. So, if your wife is a shadow of her former self, consider her stressors. You may be one of them.”